Not planning, not prioritizing, not executing…All of these are dream killers.
I spoke at a women’s business group last year. Little did I know, there was a woman in the audience who was feeling quite stuck.
We started working together, specifically on increasing her happiness and business profit. She wanted to create goals and plan for her future but her family wasn’t interested. They didn’t want to plan ahead.
She was used to prioritizing their needs above her own.
She had grown to believe her needs weren’t as important as others.
I asked her these questions…
“Do you need to know all the details before you’ll be willing to take action and make a plan? Is it absolutely necessary to have others support your dreams and goals? Why not move your plan forward even if you’re the only one who sees the importance? What would be possible if you stopped needing people to like your decisions, to like you? How will it cost you if you keep prioritizing other people’s priorities above your own?”
She decided to stop procrastinating and being so patient. It wasn’t helping.
She decided she had options. She would pursue her own happiness.
Planning for the future requires us to let go of the need for approval and acceptance and take action, even if others are unhappy with us.
I’m not saying, make decisions to purposefully make people upset. I’m saying, it’s not your job to keep people happy. They are responsible for their emotions.
Here’s the truth…
*You don’t need to know all the details to get started. You’ll figure it out as you go.
*You don’t need the support of your family or friends to reach your goals.
*You don’t need everyone to like you…
before you act.
Start where you’re at, knowing you’re capable no matter what’s staring you in the face.
With Love,
Amy
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